The Lord said to Abram, “Leave your country, your people…go to the land I will show you. I will make you into a great nation…” ~ Genesis 12:1-2
I have been reflecting on the experiences of the people in the Bible as they lived out their stories. While we read their narratives in just a few minutes, these individuals faced the unfolding of their lives and God’s promises over years, or even decades. It’s compelling to consider what that experience was truly like for them. As I ponder this, I draw parallels to my clients, many of whom confront challenges that feel insurmountable. I believe their struggles are reminiscent of those faced by the Saints of Old.
Consider Abraham. Long before the world acknowledged the existence of one true God, he began to hear God’s voice, compelling him to take bold actions and embrace staggering promises. At that time, Abraham—then known as Abram—was an elderly man without children, enjoying a life of comfort and stability surrounded by family and friends. He was prosperous and well-established, with servants at his command. Yet, despite these comforts, he was called to an extraordinary challenge: to leave everything behind, embark on an unknown journey, and lay the foundation for a family destined to become a great nation.
If I had been Abraham’s therapist, this would have raised significant red flags. Hearing voices and experiencing grand delusions can be indicative of schizophrenia! Even if I were to take his claims seriously, I would likely feel a deep concern as I watched him await fulfillment. I would question whether he genuinely believed he was hearing from God or if this was a manifestation of something deeper and more troubling.
If he were part of a church community, his well-meaning friends would likely confront him about his unconfessed sins, particularly his dishonesty regarding his wife! Surely, that would call into question the validity of God’s promises in his life. They might ask if there was unforgiveness he needed to confront. Had he been fulfilling his obligation to tithe? They would have been saying those things were barriers to experiencing the fullness of God’s favor and promises.
Then there’s Joseph. I’ve considered the moment when Joseph might have sought counseling. The betrayal by his brothers alone would have left most people with considerable emotional baggage, likely necessitating therapy. Just as he was beginning to rebuild his life at Potiphar’s house, he faced a devastating rape accusation and found himself imprisoned. That level of injustice and struggle would be overwhelming for anyone. I wonder what a therapist may have told him.
If I had been counseling Joseph, I likely would have thought, “This guy just can’t catch a break!” I would have prayed for him, requested God’s favor, hoping for a change in his circumstances, and even may have prayed that God would help Joseph see what he might be doing wrong. As a grace person, I’m somewhat embarrassed to admit I might have gone down that path. I find this so ironic, because the Bible clearly states that Joseph was a man who was walking in God’s favor the entire time he was going through those horrific circumstances!
These two stories beautifully remind us that we often mistake favorable circumstances for God’s favor and approval. Conversely, when challenges arise, we might think it’s a sign of divine discontent or a barrier to His grace. It’s essential for everyone, including us therapists, to embrace a more open-minded and compassionate perspective and refrain from judgments. We never truly know when someone is experiencing a remarkable journey of redemption. Let’s remain open-hearted and supportive, as these moments can lead to transformative growth and renewal in all of us!
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